For: Glamour model must boost assets for career
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Breast implants aren’t really about a woman’s figure or the size or shape of her breasts, argues Katherine Courts. When a woman looks in the mirror and sees two breasts she’s not happy with, the image reflected back is nothing more than a representation of desperate emotional unhappiness. Inflated breasts are built on inflated expectations, inflated promises and fragile self-esteem. Surgery can never build a person’s sense of self-worth and nor should it claim to. Yet plastic surgery is aggressively marketed on its dubious ability to bring confidence and happiness to a woman’s life. As BUPA’s internet catchphrase says: “It’s not about how other people see you, it’s how you see yourself.” Any sense of fulfilment found through surgery is condemned to be short-lived and the owner of the new breasts will ultimately be left with little more than a few scars and the possibility of serious life-long physical problems. When women want to change something in their life, the change should come from within. If surgery brought happiness, women wouldn’t return for repeat surgery. Kate Rollason is an obvious example. After one suicide attempt and bullying at school, she decided to increase her breast to a frightening 32L. Yet she still admits she’s unhappy. Shouldn’t a woman’s value, attractiveness and sexuality be built on their innate sense of worth as a human being and not on the size of their breasts? Eating disorders are known to be an expression of emotional distress and the same parallel should be drawn with breast augmentation. If young women in their 20s and 30s need breast implants to feel attractive (or make the most of their assets, it all amounts to the same thing), what are they going to need when their bodies hit middle age, old age or the menopause? And as fashions change, silicone breasts are likely to be as redundant as Kate Moss’s skeletal figure was at the end of the 1990s. We should furthermore be asking serious ethical questions about the kind of society that demands such physical perfection. Any inference that breast implants bring any kind of positive lasting change is nothing more than a cruel deception. A happy person doesn’t ask for breast implants and an unhappy person’s confidence isn’t solved by surgery. The average breast augmentation costs several thousand pounds – money that would be better spent on counselling
© Birmingham Post 2004
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